Most of the time we feel unhappy, you know why?
EXPECTATIONS
Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.
Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.
Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.
Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life, Might be he\she is just using you.
More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.
EXPECTATIONS
Yes, expectations from someone which keeps you unhappy in 95% cases in daily life. A friend expect something from other friend, a wife expect much more form her husband or vice versa, a son expect from parents and parents from their child, a boyfriend from his girlfriend and girlfriend from her boyfriend. The list is long.
Every relationship suffers just because of this expectation.
Sometime other person not able to fulfill your expectation knowingly or unknowingly due busy life, hectic schedules, lots of other responsibilities and priorities. In that case you must understand the situation so don't take it otherwise.
Sometimes other person not able to fulfill your expectation, because he don't want to fulfill it. What is his\her intention behind this is very important to know because you are not an important person in his\her life, Might be he\she is just using you.
More you expect, more you hurt. So, I must say, don't expect anything from anyone, if you wish to live happy. If some one do something for you say thanks to him\her, and other things will not affect you.
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